Sunday, March 18, 2018

job. hunt. over.

Three years and some odd months ago I moved to Lativa. I have had my fair share of ups and downs here, but overall, I am happy to call Riga home. However, the time has come to move along.

I technically began the job hunt process in the summer of 2017. MORE than a full year before I would begin a new job. I filled in a profile online and slowly began to see jobs becoming available for the 2018 school year. In October/November, I had to inform my current school I would not be returning next year. And by the end of December, I was informed they had hired my replacement. Not exactly the most comforting of events for someone who likes to know what to expect and how things will work out. But, such is the way for international teaching. 

The company that managed the online profile also hosts a few job fairs around the world, including one in London near the end of January. I had never attended a job fair before, but I had heard terrible things about them. However, knowing this fair was likely my best chance at a job, I signed up. 

One of my main goals in job hunting was to get as close to Dennis, while also finding a school I really liked, as possible. Most of the potential opportunities seemed to be in Germany. Prior to the fair, I interviewed with one school that was even smaller than my current. It seemed like a great place with good plans for the future, but it didn't feel right for me. 

Days before the fair I was beginning to feel a bit more discouraged as I had heard very little back from the schools I wanted. But then I received three emails from three different schools all in one day! Each email offering to meet up for an interview at the fair! That certainly provided the confidence boost I needed. 

I arrived in London Thursday morning, headed to my hotel, got changed, and headed over to check in for the fair and do my first interview. I stayed across the street from where the fair was being held, and I feel that was a wise choice. The fair had taken over the entire hotel it seemed! There were even tables in the lobby bar where schools were set up and conducting meetings and even interviews! Most interviews were held in various hotel rooms, including all of mine. 

I found several of my current coworkers and chatted with them as we all prepared for the days ahead. Then went upstairs for my first interview. I was pleasantly surprised to find how at ease I felt throughout the interview. Very quickly they began to share all the great things about their school - including all the things I was so praying to hear!  I left the interview feeling excited to talk to them again. Prior to the interview, I was more excited about the second school I would be meeting as that school is closer to Dennis. But, after the interview, I was reconsidering that order and rationalizing a few extra hours on a train. 

Later, I was again in the lobby with a friend. I was still in awe of the fact that interviews were occurring all around me, but also loving it! Confession: I am a shameless eavesdropper! hehe! I was listening to a conversation between two administrators and a man they seemed eager to hire as a math teacher. They were only a coffee table away, it would have been harder to not listen! hehe! My friend sitting next to me asked what school they were from and I zeroed in on their name badge only to find it was a school in Casablanca! Without thinking I enthusiastically blurted out "Casablanca!" Of course, one of the administrators looked over and I sheepishly explained that I used to live there. He went back to his conversation/interview which ended about four minutes later. When he glanced over again I apologized for interrupting (but not for listening in, because again, of course, I was listening!). We began to talk about schools and life in Casa and my friend joined in asking about positions they were seeking to fill. Her ears perked when he mentioned a position in administration- not the exact role she wanted but something to gain experience from. She took the conversation from there and scheduled a more formal interview, away from the lobby and shameless eavesdroppers, with them. The next day, she accepted an offer from that school! So my eavesdropping paid off ;) 

The next day, I was interviewing with the school that is closer to Dennis. I arrived a bit early for the interview but another school had some information packets in the hallway so I began to flip through them. Another teacher candidate came up who was planning to interview with the info-packet school. She and I discussed the school and how beautiful its campus was. She seemed really excited about the school and the position. Then, the door opened and the woman said to her, "Hello, thanks for coming up here, but I've just offered the position to another candidate and I don't feel it's fair to waste either of our time. Thank you again for coming up and for understanding." And just like that, the door closed. We both looked at each other in a complete loss for words. That was a conversation I did not need to overhear. The woman seemed bummed, but shrugged and said that was the way things went. I was beginning to see the 'terrible things about job fairs' for myself. 

Finally, my door opened, only for the interviewer to tell me she needed five more minutes. Candidates sign-up for 30-minute slots and for many schools their schedules are packed, meaning you have to make the most of those 30 minutes. And, my time was being spent reading about some school elsewhere. When the interview did begin, they had great pedagogical and curriculum questions to ask. They had good things to say about the school, and in the back of my mind, I kept telling myself it was that much closer to Dennis. But I didn't feel the same sense of comfort and peace as I had with the first school. I left thinking if they offered the job, I would probably say yes. Not exactly the excitement I had felt the day before. 

Shortly after that interview, I received an offer from the first school I interviewed with. I called Dennis to share the news and we talked about if this was a good thing or a really good thing. I shared with him how I was more excited about this school and felt like I would enjoy it there. I believe part of Dennis was secretly hoping I would not get a job simply because the backup plan had started to sound even better than the me-getting-a-new-job plan, but he encouraged me to do what felt right. He is great. 

So, I happily accepted an upper elementary teaching position with a school in Frankfurt, Germany. Thus, ending my months long, stress and worry filled job hunt. :D




New Years.. Dutch style

Dennis and I left Michigan on the 28th to spend a few days and New Years with his family.  I am really thankful he agreed to spend Christmas in the states with my family and I was equally excited to spend my first New Years in the Netherlands celebrating with him.

We shared a whole bunch of American goodies with his family and Dennis was sure to keep plenty for himself as well. When asking them about what to expect for my first New Years there, I always received the same answer: lots of fireworks.

And they were not lying. I think we heard the first few pops and cracks already on the 30th and on the morning of the 31st, the sounds became even more regular.

Our first stop was Dennis' brother's girlfriend's neighbor's house for a party. It wasn't cold and snowy like Michigan, but it was very wet and chilly so everyone was crowded into the garage- which for American standards was really more like a garden shed. But, it was fabulously decorated and cozy inside.
I got to try my first oliebol - which is like a fried dough ball. Imagine an elephant ear but in ball form.  It was delicious. Dennis and his brother were also quite excited to get started with some fireworks despite the fact it was only 3 or 4 in the afternoon. They did a small presentation since the really good stuff was for later, and then Dennis and I were on our way.

Our next stop was his parents' house. We joined them for a dinner of assorted fried snack foods- french fries, fried cheese, frikandel, etc. After our fill of fried foods, it was back to the cabin for dessert. When we were stocking up on the celebratory goods earlier Dennis had also grabbed tompouce - a pastry / cake-like treat. It is tricky to eat, but delicious!

The cabin we stay in is outside of the city and it didn't appear that anyone was staying in the nearby cabins either. So the rest of our night was board games and music.

It was pretty quiet until about 11:45. Then we started to hear the first few pops and bangs. Then at 11:59 we started to hear even more. By 12:03 it sounded like we were in the middle of a war zone. We ventured out to light off a few sparklers and it smelled of gunpowder outside! We were able to see a few fireworks the houses down the road were shooting off. For the next 45 minutes, there were consistent sounds of fireworks being shot off. Again, they were not lying!

The next day, Dennis rode down to the airport with me and two days later I was back at school. 2018 had gotten off to a great and quick start, with a lot of bang!


Saturday, March 3, 2018

Christmas

I have never been as excited about a winter break as I was this past year. Not only was it a few days off school, but it also marked the end of both graduate classes I had been taking as well as the end of the first semester and report card writing. Also, I was taking Dennis home with me!

I met him at the airport in Amsterdam and then we headed to Michigan together. I had been to Dennis' hometown twice at this point and had spent maybe three or four hours total with his family. Dennis and I landed in Detroit and so began a full week with my family! Starting with two hours in the car with my parents and then pizza dinner with everyone!

The next day we picked up a rental car and toured the area. That night we had Christmas at my grandma's house and I was able to show Dennis one of my most favorite places! I love the coziness of her house, especially around Christmas!

The next few days were full of family gatherings and Christmas celebrations. Lots of playtime with Dylan and Charlotte! My first escape room experience. And, of course, lots of chances for everyone to get to know Dennis. Not that they needed a week-- they liked him right away :)

A big snowstorm hit on Christmas Eve, so we had a wonderful white Christmas. Dennis even got to help shovel all the snow out of the driveway :p

As per usual Christmas tradition, Dylan and Charlotte had some nerf guns in their stockings and Dennis and I helped to break them in.  They weren't quite strong enough to work the toys but they did recognize quite quickly that they had a better chance on Dennis' team.

After all the Christmas celebrations, Dennis and I did a bit more exploring the town and enjoying a visit to the states. We sampled a ton of donuts, went out to Cugino's with Dana and Matt, and did a lot of shopping. I don't think I've spent that much time in a grocery store since ... ever. But it was worth it because he was super excited! ha

Our last night there, Dennis made dinner for everyone. He brought all kinds of goodies from the Netherlands to share and I pretended to help in the kitchen. hehe. Just in case my family didn't already like him (which they of course did!) his delicious dinner won them over!
 
We had a fantastic time in Michigan! Being with my family for the holidays is always amazing, but getting to share it with Dennis too was even better than I imagined it would be!!

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